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Pray, Think, Wish, Cross your fingers?

Posted by Hayley
April 26, 2010

Which do you do?
and does it offend you when someone else doesn't do what you do?

i've been thinking a lot about how everyone in our band shares the same faith... but what if we didn't?
the best part of being in a band, to me, is meeting anyone and everyone we can just because of the fact that those people and i share a deep love for music. you don't go to a show because you think someone in the band is hot. you don't go because they always wear this cool, awesome outfit, or have the right hair. those things are part of what makes up the whole picture of the music... but those things wouldn't compel you to spend your hard earned money on a ticket to spend a night watching those clothes or that hair move around for a little while. music resonates with everyone, which is why we call it the "universal language". and every day i thank God that i'm a part of that language. that i have the ability to use that language to hopefully offer something, or anything, to all these people that i otherwise would have absolutely no connection to whatsoever.

over the past 5 or 6 years, i've met all kinds of people. people who love the same God as me. people who hate him. people who don't understand him. people who don't want to. people who are mad at him, sad at him, hurt because of someone else that believes in him. and you know what i've realized about all these different people? that i freaking love them all. the best gift that you can give yourself is an open mind. i realize, you don't just give it to yourself. it's something that is either learned, forced, or it just happens... ? i don't really know where i'm going with that... but what i'm saying is, right now, i know that i am who i am today because i have watched and listened to people all over this world share their stories with me. whether it was in conversation, over livejournal, in a letter or a note, or whether they didn't even know that i heard about it. if there is anything that i'm grateful for as much as my love for music, it's a passion for people.

i know i've said it before but you are all awesome. and rule. and can be anything you want to be. just remember to enjoy the process of being where you are while you are getting to where you want to be. something i am trying out, myself. and always keep an open mind.

- wow, i didn't expect to say all that. i really came here to ask for your prayers, thoughts, wishes, crossed fingers... anything that you believe... for my throat. i got sick just before this tour but i'm not about to back down and postpone anything again. i know i can get through tonight. (2nd Grad Night at Disney) but really what matters to me is the next couple of weeks. i'm so ready for an amazing tour. and i'm not too bad off right now. just asking for your prayers. or again, whatever you believe in. need my health back, 100%

lastly, thanks for helping make this a place where people in the community can come in and make these sort of posts... myself included.
love you guys, see you on tour!
hayey

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Comments (800)

  • (20110824T020703Z )

    am i a baby for jst crying as i read this???

  • Diegon182 says
    (20101105T213611Z )

    i know it's a little late, but i can tell you that personally, i believe in myself more than anything else. it pushes me to do everything i want to do, and do it well. i think if you don't believe in yourself, nobody will do it, and that would suck. obviously, nobody's perfect, so you have to be able to hear somebody else's advices, take them or leave them, and decide what's better for you.
    about religion, i think it's good to believe that there's a god that wants us to be as best as we can in life, and you feel better leaving yourself in his hands in those moments when you can't do anything else to solve your problems.
    if you wanna know what i do, i'll tell you i mostly think a lot. when i'm anxious or nervous about something (a test, a show or something that MUST end up well) i consider praying, just to relax and meditate. that doesn't mean i can't accept other people's way to face this kind of situations, and i liked your comment about being open minded. i think you try to help your fans with your experience, that rules.

    hope it helps! you can't imagine how i like Paramore, and the fact that all of you are so close to us. greetings from Chile! i think i won't wait till you come again (i went to the show in 2008 :P) and will see you play in another country hehe

    keep making great music! hope to write here again someday :)

  • Yassi says
    (20101028T010754Z )

    I don't know if I believe in God or not, I believe that there's something waiting for us when will die, and this something is in heaven. I believe that heaven is a place that is different for everyone. I think I believe in love, in friendship, in music, in writing (it sounds weird, but it's true). I'm not in a specific religion.

    But you're right, Hayley, there's a huge importance in keeping your mind wide open to see life with thousands of different point of view.

    ''You don't deserve a point of view if the only thing you see is you'' yep, I really agree with that sentence.

  • Marloes says
    (20101007T210514Z )

    even though i read this for like many times, it still gives me the extra push to be just me. thank you for writing this so i really care less about what other people think or say 'bout me, means a lot [:

    you guys still make me happy with your music, keeps amazing!

  • (20100929T020655Z )

    Well put, love. Oh. Is that weird? It's a habit.
    But in all seriousness, being a Christian myself, I completely agree with you.
    I know my mother wouldn't- bless her heart. Different strokes for different folks- some of my very closest friends are of all different beliefs and backgrounds and such than I am. And I'm thankful for it- I learn a lot. THANK YOU for being you, Hayley. It means a lot to me.

  • parrish007 says
    (20100927T163253Z )

    im glad to see that you guys are christians just like me! i had just recently got into your music and when i found out you guys believed in god i was thrilled! i dont know if youve heard about the illuminati rumors going around but its going around that you guys are in the illuminati. if you coul;d clear the rumors that would be great so i can continue to encourage my friends to listen to you thanks!!!
    p.s I will definatlly keep you in my prayers!

  • (20100825T072054Z )

    Hayley, I've been there for the past 6 years, and you have inspired me every moment of it, and carry on to, thank you, really for everything. and Josh, Zac, Jeremy, and Taylor, thank you as well, I wouldn't be the person I am today without any of you:)

  • (20100820T230627Z )

    Hey Hayley, i just wanted to let you know that i'm 14 and i've been listening to you guys since i was 12, of course i didn't really understand much of the lyrics at that time but i just wanted to say that your songs have helped me through so many rough times and when i felt like i had no body or i was alone and i didn't have an answer, believe it or not your songs gave me the answer, the inspiration, and the motivation do whatever i wanted to do. i'm a girl so i'm always pressured about my looks and lots of other things in my life and some of the things Hayley has said about that has really helped. i love Josh, Jeremy, Zac, Taylor, and you.
    it's really hard growing up in a house where music isn't allowed because it's all i really want to do. i wish i could come to your show in Dallas in September. but that's not going to happen so i really want to say good luck and thank you so much for making music we will remember forever. PARAMORE

  • Keiichi says
    (20100814T041855Z )

    I'm guessing the throat thing is over and done with, but the God thing is never over and done with. We may be of different faith, but I know you put your heart into the same thing I do. Whatever we call God or how we describe Him is all window-dressing for what we know in our hearts to be true. That's what makes music so universal: It evokes beyond what any linguistic means of communication can, and with vocals, you combine the universal language with the local, and - VIOLA! - instant mass connection. I've just begun that process of enjoying myself (and believing in myself in the first place), and the world's a lot brighter (occasionally, that light is a bit painful, but it's all worth it - I do remember what it was like to shut down, more than most people would ever be able to gather from my usual demeanor.). Never give up. Headbang when necessary. :)

  • Ren-El says
    (20100809T063734Z )

    In the 23 years I've been on this Earth, I've met many people who many different religious faiths and many people who are non-religious (Atheist, Agnost etc). Personally I'm an Agnostic Atheist who tries to keep an open mind.

    My fiance is a Lutheran Christian while my family are non-denominational and I've had friends who were mixed of previously mentioned. This reminds me of when I was in college studying Contemporary Popular Music and was in a band with my long time best friend. All of us had different beliefs or lack there of, basically split down the middle in terms of religion or lack there of....there's only one thing that we kept in mind and that was to respect one another, let nothing get in the way of the music and our love for it.

    So I guess my answer to you Hayley is that it might not of been all that different and it doesn't make me mad or offend me if there's some one who believes something different to me as well as does something different to me...I find it fascinating more than anything and sometimes like to have a rational, calm debate.

    From day one of listening to your music I was fully aware from lyrics of yours and the rest of the band's faith but that didn't put me off because ultimately I'm in it for the music all the way!

    Paramore's music is inspirational and any show of faith is admirable as well as your vocals being amazing.

    Favourite songs

    - My Heart
    - Let The Flames Begin extended (live performance)
    - Emergency
    - Brighter
    - Hallelujah
    - Crushcrushcrush
    - Brick By Boring Brick

  • (20100727T021302Z )

    Hayley,
    Everyone loves you and so does God. We will walk with you no matter where you go. You have brought a great presence to the world: Your voice. It plays on the radios in our cars,bedrooms,and ipods. Paramore is in our lives and that's why we come to Paramore.net every day to see how life is with the most wonderful band in the world. The music speaks a story to everyone who listens to them, and understands who Paramore really is. Paramore is passion, Paramore is life. It is everything to your fans that come to the shows and be in the same room as you. God is with you always. God is with you and the fans at the same time, watching out for us as we share the passion for music and spend our greatest times with you. Paramore is something worth sharing to the world. Paramore is the MUSIC that keeps our blood flowing~well to me its that way. LOL. Hayley Nicole Williams. We love you, your music, your passion to blog and connect with us everyday through twitter, facebook, myspace, or whatever you wanna do. LOL. We love you.

  • (20100712T131355Z )

    Hayley just remeber that we as fans are here with you whereever you go and so is GOD because he loves u so dearly and so do we Hayley and Paramore you guys have helped me at my best and worst times and i thank you so much for being who you are i dont even no if u will read this but i love you guys and i was watching the final riot tour and u said if u brought out a real crappy record that we would still follow u well u damm right!!! hahaha i would buy every copy because your music inspires me to right my own hopefully one day my band will be as awesome as yours hahaha u have all my prayers
    xx spunkles :D

  • (20100711T225709Z )

    Hayley, what an inspiration you are! Your words goes right to my heart, you're amasing

  • Paramore<3 says
    (20100629T030547Z )

    remember to enjoy the process of being where you are while you are getting to where you want to be

    this comment is now posted on my facebook :) you all are truly an inspiration to me. it will help me in my own faith with God

    much LOVE Paramore a new found fan,
    Abby xoxox

  • 19katie96 says
    (20100627T081516Z )

    Hayley ur an awsome insperational person & i look up 2 u!! i look up 2 u because ur not afraid 2 be urself, and i luv that in ppl. when I see u in July I will try & meet u cuz u, josh, zac, jeremey, and taylor r just awsome, inspiring ppl!!!!

  • hurley01 says
    (20100623T020449Z )

    Hey Haley, that was really inspirational, and not only do i love your music but i love that you can share the word of God with people around you and who are inspired by you that they also may believe in God. You opened your mind to different views that people have and thats special since most people dont take the time to listen to one another. It also gives you a chance to see yourself in a different light as well. Im going through a rough time right now and this really helped me out and showed me how God can work with people in diffferent ways.You guys are an amazing band and are all awesome! I'll keep you in my prayers. May your tour go well and I wish you and the rest of the band well. God Bless.

  • julieann says
    (20100611T041409Z )

    god really love your band...for he used you guys to touched the lives of many people in the world take note in the whole world not only where you grown up (franklin)... i know there are still a lot of things coming out from your mind and a lot of songs to be sing by you together with your band...
    yes I'll include you and your band in my prayer everynight before i go to sleep and every morning after god exetended another day of my life...and in every sunday mass which i attended.....lot of prayer for you guys...
    take care always...

    P.S can you add me in fb here's my account thanks...
    moritojulieann@yahoo.com
    I'll wait for this
    thanks...thanks...thanks....thankks love lots

  • (20100608T035817Z )

    You seriously have a way with words. All your blog posts are always so meaningful, and inspiring, and thoughtful. It makes me think about everything you said, really deeply, for a long time. Not many people can make me do that ;)
    All in all, I love you!

  • Lorraine says
    (20100605T040501Z )

    '' just remember to enjoy the process of being where you are while you are getting to where you want to be ''

    Thank you for this line. Very well-said.

    My biggest wish in the moment is to find a ticket for your show in Werchter music festival in Belgium !

    Love ya'

  • (20100604T195630Z )

    hayley,your seriously inspire me in so many different ways.

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