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am i over reacting??? (Paramore related)

  • am i over reacting??? (Paramore related)
    AllWeKnowIsAnisa says(Dec 15, 2009)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

    Bascically, me and my four friends are going to the Paramore Wembey show on the 18th. We have been planning for months that we would catch the train at 2, straight after school so that we could be there a little early and have a chance of gettig nearer to the front.

    Now, 3 days before the show, all four of them have decided that i'm being stupid and we don't need to arrive that "early". They've said that they couldn't care less about getting to the front. They're going to catch the coach at 4.30pm which takes 2/2.5 hours to get to Wembley Arena.

    I told them that what they've done is unfair. They've all ganged up on me without even talking to me about it first and I was the one who bought all of the tickets and i've already bought all 5 train tickets. Also, they've already booked the coach without even including me and have said that I can either book the coach of go by myself.

    My parents have said that I'm not going into London by myself cause I've never been by myself before so now I have no choice but to go at 4.30 on the coach. I'm extremely pissed off right now and really don't want to speak to my so-called "bff"'s.

    Am I over reacting by getting really upset or are they right?

    Oh, and thanks if you took the time to read my ranting! :D

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AllWeKnowIsAnisa's picture
on December 15, 2009 - 7:18pm

Bascically, me and my four friends are going to the Paramore Wembey show on the 18th. We have been planning for months that we would catch the train at 2, straight after school so that we could be there a little early and have a chance of gettig nearer to the front.

Now, 3 days before the show, all four of them have decided that i'm being stupid and we don't need to arrive that "early". They've said that they couldn't care less about getting to the front. They're going to catch the coach at 4.30pm which takes 2/2.5 hours to get to Wembley Arena.

I told them that what they've done is unfair. They've all ganged up on me without even talking to me about it first and I was the one who bought all of the tickets and i've already bought all 5 train tickets. Also, they've already booked the coach without even including me and have said that I can either book the coach of go by myself.

My parents have said that I'm not going into London by myself cause I've never been by myself before so now I have no choice but to go at 4.30 on the coach. I'm extremely pissed off right now and really don't want to speak to my so-called "bff"'s.

Am I over reacting by getting really upset or are they right?

Oh, and thanks if you took the time to read my ranting! :D

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Crossthemtight.'s picture

your were correct. explain to yo mamma whats going on and make a rational discussion.

stefo.is.the.name.'s picture

i don't think you're overreacting......they're not being fair

AllWeKnowIsAnisa's picture

@Para~nerd thanks :D You're first Paramor concert will be awesome! This was my first and i'll never ever forget it! :)

Paranerd_5's picture

Glad you had a great time. Cant wait for my 1st Paraconcert!

AllWeKnowIsAnisa's picture

They pretty much screwed me over again earlier today but I am so happy right now that I couldn't care less! That was the most amazing night of my life and I even got down to the barrier at one point! I'm so overwhelmed with happiness that I could cry right now! :D

tenchou. ٿ's picture

no, i don't think you're overreacting. they're the ones being stupid.. is it really a big cost to give some time to see paramore and have a good look at them? amf.

Annalizaaa's picture

Noooooo! You aren't over reacting!

LovelyLabrys's picture

I hope that you managed to get near the front. I've been to loads of gigs in different size venues. For Wembley you either need to be standing right down the front or have seats in the first block on either side.

I would also say that if you are sturdy enough and there is a long wait before they come on (which there is), you can push, shove, creep and manipulate yourself to the front, but you may lose your friends on the way.

melissa ♫_2's picture

na your not over reacting =) .. your friends seem to be the ones with the issue.. i certainly agree being at the front is totally worth going early for!

javaChip56's picture

let them be..just go with your own plan..you'd still enjoy the show even without them.. ^_^;

Killaroxsox32's picture

You meet loads of awesome people at shows anyways, you can come and hang with me and my friend hahah xD

And no you're not overreacting, that's really harsh :/
Just don't let them spoil Paramore for you!

wind thief.'s picture

I don't think your overreacting at all. maybe you should find other people to go with you because that's just messed up.

Annalizaaa's picture

Well,if there are 3 of them ganging up on you....Well,if they don't have the tickets,take them from them! Find someone else! If they are acting like that about going to see the best band ever then...IDK

summar♫'s picture

bshh i'd be even more upset!

ParaChick-13531's picture

ur right, but as tragically_hip said, just go and have fun, and they are still paramore no matter where you sit

ana_loveparamore2death's picture

well, com'n
its paramore
u should still try 2 convince them...

don'tlieyourlonely's picture

There not very good friends if thay have turned round and done that to you, and when you have gone out of your way to buy them tickets! if i were you i would tell them all where to go, and go by myself, get shit loads of money for the spare tickets and have an awsome time, then make some new friend while your there! :)

MidnightFelicis97's picture

Assuming that they did that deliberetly then tell them how you feel and if they don't like it, ditch them and watch paramore on your own forcing your way to the front and having an awesome time :D
tbf, such pettiness about it is unessecary. if theyw ere really your friends they wouldn't have done that

demi_neish's picture

yeah if telling them that uv already booked the tickets just tell ur parents ur friends are going

BornForPARAMORE_8's picture

I was gonna mention that you have already BOOKED TRAIN TICKETS TOO and that would be a waste of money if they didn't accept them, but it's all sorted now!!

btw if anything else goes wrong and you somehow have a spare ticket left over, I would be happy to take it.. Just have to fly from Australia to UK but besides that.. lol jokes but OMG HOPE YOU HAVE AN AWESOME TIME!!
=)

MissGuidedMaggie's picture

you are absoloutley not reacting! your 'friends' are so ungrateful and inconsiderate and [as if its any of my busines..] i dont think you should even be their friend because you are obvioulsy a lovely, thoughtful, generous person and they dont deserve you!
i can understande where your parents are coming from of course they just want you to be safe. i really dont know what to suggest for you do do im not much help am i? but talk to your parents and see if you can find other people to take your friends tickets because they dont deserve them and hopefully you can find people that can go with you. hope it all workd out for you sweetheart let us know! xo

DeeZaSaur's picture

you're not over-reacting
that was really mean of them
honestly, i say you sneak off and go on the 2pm train :D

annairbsouthard's picture

YOU ARE SOOO NOT OVER REACTING. I THINK THAT THEY ARE BEING REALLY BIG JERKS AND SHOULD BE THANKFUL THAT YOU BOUGHT THEM THE TRAIN TICKETS AND TICKETS TO THE SHOW. SO THEY SHOULD JUST SUCK IT UP AND GO WHENEVER YOU DECIDE TO GO.

DANI_ohyes's picture

i would want to get to the front too. you never know when theyre gonna like, choose the first 20 people or anything to meet the members. i think you should go anyway

Carly is fixed at zero's picture

haha that sucks. but you're going on the 2, right?

katie_89's picture

your definitely not over reacting. i would be pissed if i were you. i either say dont give em the tickets or just go on the train alone and defy your parents. cus at least if u get in trouble it was for the sake of being in the front at a paramore concert lol.

paramoreismydrug♫'s picture

your friends suck, you can go with someone you know that likes paramore and sell the other tickets, forget those bitches or ask the to pay you

Apryl's picture

there not very good friends

AllWeKnowIsAnisa's picture

@creepychan haha! They either give me the money or don't go to the gig! :) They actually should do that. Smaller venues are better and it'd probably a lot more convinient for lots of people. And I get what you mean. I do that all the time without meaning to and just like you wish I could take that back. But what the worst they could reply with? Sorry but this isn't possible probably. But you might even benefit from it by making them aware of how you felt! :D

v_6's picture

@anisa.loves.paramore x
Just don't give it to them haha
Yeah it does suck :/
They should do like a small city/town tour in the UK or something.
I sent an e-mail like pouring my heart out about it to the management and i'm too affriad to sign into my account incase they've replied haha
you know when you just do something in the spare of the moment then you think "shit, really shouldn't have done that?" haha
It wasn't an angry e-mail or anything, I was just so upset at the time haha

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