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christmas miracles and being single

  • christmas miracles and being single
    metallicamatt says(Dec 23, 2010)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

    This sounds way too cheesy, but I have to get this off my chest or its gonna swallow me alive.

    I'm feeling crap. Its 2 days before Christmas, and yesterday something just hit me.

    I'm single. This is my first Christmas where i'm single.

    Sounds stupid, but i like having a girlfriend. I walk down the street and see a couple kissing, and I think 'Aww that's sweet'. Then i think 'Oh wait. I have no one.'

    Now, I'm not desperate or anything. Its because its Christmas. No one likes being alone on Christmas. I go back to my empty flat each night and there's no one to hug. It really doesn't help when you've found out one of your best mates is dating your ex.

    Can someone give me some advice? it would be really appreciated.

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on December 23, 2010 - 10:36pm

This sounds way too cheesy, but I have to get this off my chest or its gonna swallow me alive.

I'm feeling crap. Its 2 days before Christmas, and yesterday something just hit me.

I'm single. This is my first Christmas where i'm single.

Sounds stupid, but i like having a girlfriend. I walk down the street and see a couple kissing, and I think 'Aww that's sweet'. Then i think 'Oh wait. I have no one.'

Now, I'm not desperate or anything. Its because its Christmas. No one likes being alone on Christmas. I go back to my empty flat each night and there's no one to hug. It really doesn't help when you've found out one of your best mates is dating your ex.

Can someone give me some advice? it would be really appreciated.

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haha

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Buy a hamster or Gerbil.

Halerrrs's picture

http://www.paramore.net/forums/faq/

http://www.paramore.net/forums/guide-to-the-paramorenet-forums-for-dummi...

Don't let the title of the second one offend you haha

But these may help so you don't get into any shenanigans on the site :)

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really? thats good. im new to this site you see. guess theres a few things i need to learn haha

Halerrrs's picture

No problem, I just thought I'd recommend it, it may take a bit of time for people to respond. But when they do, it's usually really helpful and great advice. It helped me :)

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im with my family at the moment. im goin out christmas eve night so ill hopefully see my pals there.

and h-bomb, i appreciate that, but no one seems to be goin on there lol

thanks H-Bomb and hazeloctober

Halerrrs's picture

Spend some time with your family on Christmas, or call some friends.

You may want to comment on this instead of making a whole discussion about it:

http://www.paramore.net/forums/need-to-vent-talk-or-let-something-out/

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Call your best friends. Call your parents, just get out there and talk to people that you love. It'll help you feel better.
hope it helps.