ok... soooo
i dont like girls as friends honestly (which is a problem at the moment since i go to an all girls school and pretty much hate all the people in my year besides a few peopl)
anyways.... sooo i have more guys friends than girl friends..... since i think most girls are total bitches and should get over the beauty (make.up hair... blah blah blah (ok that was hypocritical since i do my make-up, but i mean i dont fuss over it as much as most other chicks and also fussing over clothes and being mean to people because of how they dress is totally pathetic-.... ugh honestly)) anyhooos. i even get mad at my best friend cause she always cares about how she looks and what others think of her... but see i dont i just put on jeans (or sweats) a tee, converses and a hoodie plus some eyliner and im done...
ok so back to my theory....
so my theory is that
GUYS ARE SUCH JERKS (sorry for those who arent) AS BOYFRIENDS BECAUSE THEY ARE BETTER THAN MOST GIRLS AS BEING FRIENDS....
anyone agree with me??
you dont have to since i dont really mind if people think im a total freak or stupid because im me and no one can change me... haha. obnoxious, okay that did sound a bit obnoxious.... haha, dylan you idiot got me thinking of obnoxity..... ugh....
anyways.... comment
I'm 20, in 3rd year on college and loads of my old classmates are still as immature as they were when we were all 16...
to be honest. this was a year ago. and quite a bit has changed since then and im not sure if i completely agree with this now. i still have more guy friends compared to girls. but i find even though there are a lot of annoying girls there are some. not many but some.
even though im saying this i still think that this is partly true but there are exceptions. or maybe im just screwed up in the brain and cant figure it out. i wonder if im making sense.
anyway im too tired to explain. maybe tomorrow. goodnight. peace.
I agree with the person below :D about personality rather than gender :) I have a mix of guy and girl friends- that I all get along with. But I feel the same about some girls I dont hang around with too much- all they seem to do is talk about other people behind their back who they are friends with.
I recently started college (A Levels) and as you do.. you start to stereotype them by how they look. We did this 'ice-breaker' thing in Sociology, and i was suprised to find that most of the girls I talked to were really friendly. Especially when this girl was totally plastered with make up and seemed really ignorant- was really lovely bless her!
So I guess its about who you hang around with- and if you dont like their personality, then you can try and find other people to socialise with :D
I think it depends on personality rather than gender. For example, several girls in my class are really preppy, and really annoying, and very, very loud. Attention need. But my best friend is a girl and we rarely, or almost never talk about clothes or make up or go shopping together or whatever.We're serious tomboys.(Well she has like 5000 brothers, that's probably why..okay it's only 3, but still.)
And most guys I know are total jerks and don't really care about friendship, but then there are also nice guys who you can totally be friends with.
For me, girls are easier to be friends with, but that's probably because the guys I've met in my life so far are simply idiots. I have yet to meet more normal people:D
but yeah, I believe it's more about the personality than gender.
Pretty stereotypical to be honest. A lot of girls are decent people, but hide behind the fakery and bitchiness because they feel threatened by other girls. They don't want to be socially rejected or picked on, because it's not nice to be honest, so they do whatever in order to fit in.
Anyways, it doesn't matter if they are obsessed with make-up. I doubt most girls like looking at themselves without make-up, even the naturally pretty girls don't. Plus I thought the people around here who dress 'how they want' because they don't care what people think. It doesn't mean others have to dress like that because you do, this mindset is the problem with all people, they feel that if somebody is not the same, they can't be close.
Most of my best friends are chavs who like dubstep, mainstream and 'hardcore' (as they call it haha) dance music, but that's because that's how people are where I'm from. But they still accept me when I walk around in skinny jeans whilst they have joggers and stuff on, it's you as a person that people get to like, you've just gotta make it happen.
Trust me, a lot of girls seem like slutty, stuck-up bitches, but most really aren't, they are generally really nice if you befriend them. I noticed that a lot of the more socially rejected people at my school ended up more slutty when they all left, they just didn't dress like a 'slut' at school because they didn't want to fit in. Anyways, rant over, take it how you want.
By the way, I don't mean to offend people here, but you bitching about the 'bitches' at your school is pretty damn hypocritical to be perfectly honest with you. Think about what people define as a bitch. It usually means they talk shit about people behind their back, like you lot are now. Sort it out.
@yelyahsandy: the advantage of being 20 is that none of my friends would mention justin bieber's name, except when we're playing the 'I want to shoot...' game lol...
hehe... as aguy, most of my friends are girls because i find most guys to be really immature and sex-obssessed, but most of my female friends aren't fussed about their appearance.
However, they do say that if I was hanging around with more guys I would be less respectful of women, so women wouldn't be interested in being my friend, so potential girlfriends wouldn't be scared off by the fact that I'm always surrounded by crazy punk girls. They say that while they wouldn't have me any other way, I may be losing out on a sex life...
I agree with you!!! I can't really talk to girls 'cause most of the time they're really girly and slutty and stuff. All they care about is boys and makeup and clothes and phones and shopping and stuff, whereas i'm totally different. Having a boyfriend when you're 13 is wrong, and i wouldn't consider it anyway 'cause most of the boys in my year are just completely immature and ignorant. The ones that aren't immature and ignorant are my friends, same goes for the girls. I have about 5 friends that are girls, because they like the same music as me and they are happy with just wearing jeans and a t shirt instead of slutty skirts and high heals and stuff. Most girls in my year seem to be self- absorbed, mean, and two-faced. It's always been like that, always will be.
That felt good to get all that out :L
btw people. this is old. and i dont go to an all girls school anymore xD i go to a co-ed one now. woooop.
Yes, girls are sometimes obsessed with makeup and appearance, far fewer girls are not interested in this. I think there is nothing wrong with that boys - your friends. I agree, they are often not suited to the role of boyfriend, but they are better as friends. And I enjoy spending time with them. =)
@flump
No means no man.
Aand You know what? i Was a Bit like That Since I Moved and losed my friends , Theen Guys just talk to girls Cuz they're Pretty or Biatch , and act like dumbass with girls who arent (yeaah yaah i know its really stupid ^^).So I Get used to hang out with girls but girl's world something freake me off and bored me.Plus Im not a usually person so i like some rock but i love RNB stuff ect.....
Solution: Find Girls like you , kinda impossible in my town DAWN !!!!
the girls i usually hang out with sound kinda like you but without the makeup and they're awesome. my friends that i hung out with more last year, one is like you (without makeup) and the other is what most people call emo. but she's not like the bitchy hair-flipping preppy chick but she wears a bunch of makeup and like spikes and accesories and stuff (she was a preppy chick last year actually). another of my friends used to be like you (in grade 6, we're now in grade 9) then when grade 7 started she started kinda slowly being more self-concsious and now that i think about it i'm like "where did she go?"
so i don't totally agree with you but do on some levels
Personally, I wear makeup, own hot irons, etc. but I'm not like some chicks I know
" Oh Em Gee, did you like, see that new Justin Bieber video? Isn't he just the HOTTEST! Now, I have to check myself in the mirror a 1122312th time, TOODLES!" *hair flip*
You'd be surprised by accurate that is...
The point is, I'm a chick, but I'm not all valley girl, preppy, pop music worshipper and I'm fairly low maintenance unless you say some really stupid shit in front of me.
But girls are pretty much programmed to claw each other's eyes out if they feel threatened/jealous/whatever; that's just the way it works.
Girls are more bitchy than guys because of PMS.
What? You asked for a straightforward answer...
Some are more bitchy than others by nature.
look, some girls are real bitches all the time, but you have to admit that ALL girls are bitches at some times, involving you as well as me! you just have to find a girl who is a little more deep and a little more mature than the others to hang out with ... if you hang out with boys you won't be able to have a healthy relationship with one of them, because you've heard their opinion about stuff and most of the times it's really annoing..(sorry about my spelling) just stick with girls for going out and stick with boys to date.. never the oposit..it just won't end up the way you'd want it to...at least this is what i think....=]
@Mattrocks haha i like your point of view. and your input matters just as much as anyone elses :)
Oh yes, by the way, as @Ginga Da Ninja said, with us guys, we're oftentimes plain and straightforward with ya. We wanna hurt ya, we use the fist, not some fancy backstabbing pussy-pantsh*ttery or whatever you might call it.
Call it domestic violence, at least you can see it coming. Literally. Heh. Ahem.
*coughs* I think I just made a very bad joke there. Still, though, the point stands.
Plus, we're more casual. A great upside! :D
*scratches head*
Where'd the "Guys are such jerks" part come from? I take offense to that! :( *sobs*
*coughs*
Ahem. Well. Now you've taken a glimpse at why we guys oftentimes have trouble following most girls and also taken a look at why a good deal of guys (I reckon, anyways) like tomboys.
Heck, the thing with tomboys (digressing here) is that they can handle themselves, and that they're usually really easy to hang out with (from what I've seen). Guys want girls that can kick hairy arse and be sexy at the same time, and oftentimes that lies within the (elusive) tomboy. Look at Sura from Spartacus: Blood and Sand, for instance. I ain't seen the series, but I've seen the backgrounds for the characters.
Sorry for digressing. Anyways, back to the point;
I mean, hell, guys like being laid back and hanging out at the pub, while girls like going out to the shops and all (Just a generalisation here, people, I don't mean to offend people, but the sad thing with stereotypes is that sometimes they actually are justified), and when each side looks at the other, they start scatching their heads and wondering "How the heck can they like that?"
This is kinda one of the reasons why I love Hayley Williams - because first off, she's not like that - stuck up, obsessed with makeup, etc. - from what I've seen, she's got the good traits of both guys AND girls - she's just girly enough that we guys can admire her insanely cute looks and the likes, but boyish enough that she can take care of herself and can relate really, really well to the fullas.
And don't get me started on anorexia and, of course, the no-frills b*tchiness.
*shrugs*
However, this is coming from a guy from an all-guy school, mind you. A really antisocial guy, at that, so I've got a feeling my input doesn't relly count :l
... I have 3 bestfriends.. 2 of them are boys.. but if they were talking bout some "boy thing" I felt awkward to be near them.. but they're always there for me.. girls have some attitude that's something like " how could u forget...blahblah...| and then theyre gonna say something like " i thought u were my friend" nonsense,,,, haha.
@PaintingPortraits ''They all wear like 5 inch heels every day''
haha. i wouldn't be able to walk. xD
Alot of girls in my school are like that.. I have an amazing group of friends, that are girls. But they aren't bitchy at all. And same here, I love hoodies, jeans, and converse :D I can't get along with most of the girls in my school because, yes, they are obssessed with the makeup and how they look. The only thing I actually spend time on, is my hair. It's cut a certain way.. so.. yeah. :) But alot of the girls in my school think they are better than everyone else, and it pisses me off.
Guys are easy to make friends with! But most of the guys I hang out with don't play sports. They're into music, like me :) One of my best friends is a guy, since I was 5 years old. I'm 16 now, and were still good buddies :)
I am so alone at my school every girl there (except my best friend) is trying to be like a model. I'm fine in my paramore tee , jeans and my chucks. They all wear like 5 inch heels every day.
I'm lucky, cuz there are a lot of girls at my school that are like me (not super girly, same interests as me, likes stuff thats kind of dark and evil), so I don't have that problem. I do agree that guys make GREAT friends. They're very easy to talk to. With a few other of my girl friends, I can't talk to them about the sick Gibson X-Plorer that's at Guitar Center for only $200, or the awesome Metalocalypse episode that was on last night. With guys, I can.
The thing with girls is that when they want to hurt you, it hurts more than when a guy wants to hurt someone. I don't mind getting punched in the face. It builds charecter 8) But sometimes when girls put other people down for things that they can't help, or things that they like, it makes them question themselves, which is incredibly wrong. Girls just have different ways of being mean, and, personally, I think those ways hurt more,
i actually hate half the girls in my year at school too
there are 30 of us in my agricultural science(aka a fancy word for farming) class, there should only be 24, but all the retards thought it would be an easy subject, hence there being 30
the class is divided into the people who actually want to learn(minority and me) and the ones who are totally ignorant(vast majority). they constantly talk about bull-shit and it interupts our class b/c our teacher has to keep correcting them, i'm so annoyed! they're a crowed of bitches! i swear one day i'm going to stand up in the middle of class and tell them to fuck off, if they dont want to learn -leave, and if they though it would be easy -leave,
a few girls in my school are awesome and they are my best friends
but ya, guys are better as friends
i'm like you too, vans, jeans hoodie/t-shirt and i'm good to go, a few of my best friends like there hair (like today at luch me, my best friend and another girl ran up to one of there houses so they could straighten their hair before they had to go into town, well, it is my bffs bfs b-day today and she wanted to look nice for him) and make-up(i 100% agree with @Paramuse, in my school, orange foundation is a must)
I realy agree girls are really bitchy and two faced and guys as friends are way more straight forward and easy to talk to I love my girlfriends but sometimes you need a break from all the cattyness guys are much less judgemental and alot easier to get along with most of the time :)
So true. Me and my best friend fight ALL the time and it just ridiculous, and i'm getting at the point where i just don't want to be around her anymore because she is just rude. There are things that are okay to say and then there are things that you just shouldn't and she isn't getting that, but on the other hand i love her to death and i stick up for a lot, but i don't think i can do it anymore.
We be joking sometimes and i don't care if she says anything bout me but when it comes to my family, thats a line you don't cross. like today she called me a jerk because i forget to get her after class cause we were goning to go to mickey d's. I said my bad and all and she called me a jerk again so we wore just playing around and i called her something and she said yo mama.
No. I don't do that shit, its funny, its not cute. I don't say nothing bout her mom, i love her mom.
On to dating
I don't date. Simple. I'm not finna put my self out there just for some stupid ass to hurt me, sorry.
girls that concentrait to much on make up and stuff are sooooo annoying. T_T
Besides they look far hotter without.
i don't know if i completely agree.
but, i do have a lot more guy mates than girls, but really i love them all as much as the next.
K..
Urm, I don't hate girls, but I don't like them a lot of them. I get on with guys better too. Urm, and as boyfriends go.. get a good one and not a dick and you're fine. Same goes for girls really. I have a lot of friends that are girls, and I love them all to bits. None of them are bitchy (well, maybe a little) or judgemental, whatever. You gotta remember that EVERYBODY at one point or another judges someone else, it's just something we do. Boys and girls.
As make up and hair goes, yes I do mine because I don't wanna look like I've just been dragged through a hedge backwards, but I don't look in the mirror 123456789 times a day.
Yeah, whatever. :)
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