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    jacobblackfan1245 says(May 11, 2011)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

    I had a one night stand with one of my really good friends. Now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out here?

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on May 11, 2011 - 12:57pm

I had a one night stand with one of my really good friends. Now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. Can anyone help me out here?

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Muhahahaa's picture

KEEP THE BABY GIRL!

Just sit down and talk to your friend and your family. Don't worry. Everything will be alright sooner or later! :)

hannah_cheriee's picture

My friend got into the same situation

Are you wanting to keep the baby?
How old are you? Raising a baby and going through school pregnant is really tough.
Will your parents be able to support you financly if you dont have a job, cause it wont be there responsibility to raise the baby unless the legally adopt or become guardians

If your not ready to be a mum adoption is always good. It would be better for your parents to adopt the baby.

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@M|att
Coincidently, when telking to my R.E. teacher about the subject, that's what I said :P

@Ms. blue eyes
"this is a really hard one" Those were probably her thoughts too

@NerdyParamoreLover
Isn't Paramore.net a place where you can come to a (friendly) community to talk about your problems?

NerdyParamoreLover's picture

oh my bad i thought this was paramore.net not iampregnant.net

but any-who, you need to get help. go tell your parents or something.

ms. blue eyes's picture

oh wow, firstly, how old are you? this is a really hard one, i think that you need to talk to your parents and this friend of yours, and decide what to do, at the end of the day, its your choice, and yours alone. congrats on the baby, stay positive

:) ashley xx

MidnightFelicis97's picture

@Ross
Tell that to Mary.

Ross_4's picture

First off, check you really are pregnant. Could just be a false positive. Second, if you are pregnant, get your parents, your friend, and your friends' parents together, so you can discuss your options. Thridly, congratulations.

@Eevie =)
She might've used protection. Remember, celebacy is the only form of protection from pregnancy with a 100% success rate.

_Brand New Eyes's picture

OMG. This is a really hard situation... I'm in shock, honestly. But do what Don said, it's the right thing.

Don_7's picture

You can't procrastinate with something like this. i dont know how far you are into your pregnancy, but after 3 months you start getting a belly. if you already are, first thing you need to do is tell your parents if you havent already. Hopefully youve also told this friend of yours. I dont know how old you are, but you need to decide whether or not you want to keep the baby. Its a tough choice but this can change your life completely (obviously). I have friends who were pregnant at 16, and they decided to get abortions. Its not a nice idea, but theres a time and place for everything.
thats my advice

tragically_hip's picture

@jacobblackfan1245,
It would help if you could give us more details. Where did you two love birds do the ol' in out and what day was it?
http://www.paramore.net/forums/need-to-vent-talk-or-let-something-out/
You've been on here 2 days and make this discussion. lol

Eevie,
You're always too nice.

Eevie's picture

first point is you should have used protection, prevention is better than cure

second is are you completely sure your pregnant? you could just be late have you done a couple of pregnancy tests that have been positive and gone to your doctor? i would say those are the first things you need to do

you need to tell your friend and sit down and talk about your options, you also need to tell your parents, you need to decide first of all if you wanna keep the baby

Haley_30's picture

does anyone know?

tragically_hip's picture

Congratulations.

YesSirIndeed's picture

leave a comment on my page for an answer

YesSirIndeed's picture

Ok so let me help. Have you told ur friend or ur parents?

Picia's picture

omG, really?

MidnightFelicis97's picture

Nope.