Hey my Parafamilia. Wut is popping. Well I don't know who else to turn to. Teachers are def no help at all. So I need some help. There's this mean girl at my school. She's like a snob/wannabe "cool girl" cause she follows not leads and there's no such thing as cool you just think you are. So she's been so mean and she's been stalking me and my friends online. Not only that but she's mean in real life too. So what do I do? Nothing that will get me booted out of school. Nothing that will make her even more aggressive. Trust me I'm already on scholarship and one false move and I will be booted out! So help me out guys. PS another reason her and her friends hate me is cause I'm "goth" and am uncontrollably obsessed with Paramore. I mean really? That's so dumb. I have obsessions and they do too. So please please help me. Thanks
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Jenn
yeah I do what Matt said :D. At least I know I'm doing the rite thing now. But she's still a mean no matter what. But thanks for the adivice guys
Wait until it's after school and them tell her off, just make sure nobody finds out?? I'm sorry, I don't know. :(
I know how you feel! ive been in the same situation. Ignoring her would be the best! let this fucking bitch know you dont give a shit about what she says!all you have to do is have fun with your friends and make every moment unforgetable and forget her. seriusly.just be sorry for her! she has no life! has nothing to do but saying these things to you? i mean..thats not a really nice life! and PARAMORE is a word she soent even deserve to know.. if you dont want to ignore her just dont let her bring you down cause you know who you are and you know ur not any of these mean things she may say! good luck! kill that bitch! :D
haha, take it away from school then beat her soo bad. lmbo XD jk. but um..DO WHAT MAT SAID. haha XD
just like the movie, you should push her in front of a bus lol jk, i agree with Matt you should ignore her and be cool like you dont care what she's doin to you it works for me all the time those kind of bitches are freaking anoying i cant believe they hate you cuz you love Paramore i'll love to meet some as ParaObsessed as i am lol, well good luck!
what does she do?
does she say something about your style?
next time she does say "I don't remember asking for your opinion."
don't let her treat you bad!
I love when there is a bitch like that... Only what I would do would probably get you kicked off of scholar ship so i'll say this. They only have as much power over you give them. Ignore her and hope she grows up is pretty much all you could do... or tell her to get over herself. Listen to @I'm a RIOT! words of wisdom.
eewww obnoxious bitches.. my favorite :/ well telling her off would be uber fun but then that gives her reason to be bitchier.. personally I avoid confrontation when I honestly don't give a rat's ass because it's not worth my time. Some people say that's being a coward, I say it's choosing my battles. If she's really bothering you that much, maybe you should straight up ask her why. Avoid aggressive choice of words or she'll think you're looking for a fight. Don't give her anything she could use against you.. It sucks when you hand the enemy their ammo with a target on your head..
Try not to react to her bullying. If you give her a reaction, she gets exactly what she wants. Trust me, Ive been there before. I hope that kinda helped!
Personally, Just ignore her. There's a reason she's doing what she's doing and that's to get a rise out of you. She wants you to react, so if you just don't then it'll get her more and more worked up.
If she calls you a goth just say "fine, I'm a goth"
If she says you're obsessed with Paramore then why be insulted? she's stating a fact, well done her. Seriously, as dumb as it sounds, ignoring her will work.
well, that they hate you 'cuz your goth and a paramore fan, is really stupid!
they have to look at themselves...
is she like the girl in the misery business?? well i would say treat her like hayley at the end... but... that's not such a good idea...
maby you have just say it to some teachers and the school director (i know it's kinda stupid but it 'll help, really)
and they will look at itat school.
or maby you kan print an very mean e-mail from her and show it to them, or take a picture from an MSN coversation...
donnow, whatever.
or you can say it just in her face that she have to stop beeing so mean and stupid, or something else just to put her feet back at the ground (donnow you now this expression, but we use it in belgium)
if you need more tips, just say it
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