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Ok so one of my very close friends (lets call her sarah) has started to become really good friends with the most popular girl in our year (lets call her mollie) Mollie also just happeneds to go out with the guy i've fancied for like FOREVER.
So when we got out of our last lesson Sarah and me would normally go across the street together to the super market carpark opposite our school so today when Sarah and I where walking back when Mollie and the guy i fancy (lets call him Tim) came up behind us completly ignoring me and started talking to Sarah I started to walk faster hoping that Sarah would catch up but i heard Mollie say "So can us two go over the road?" And Sarah didn't even tell her that I usually walk over with her so i walked ahead of them while Tim went to wait at the bus stop and waited at the crossing and we finally all crossed over. When we got to the other side there were three guys that would normally tease me coz of what i listen to and who i'm friends with but when I walked across by myself and Mollie and Sarah were behind me one of the guys did say something but when Mollie and Sarah crossed over they stopped and walked away.
Mollie then said "OMG i forgot to give Tim a hug!" And Sarah was like "Yeah coz you were embarrassed" And when I looked over i could see Tim looking over at us. Sarah's Mum then came so i said 'Bye Sarah' and Mollie was like 'Bye Sarah!' And when i'd eventually found my mum's car Mollie was like 'Bye' and I said 'Bye'.
So my question is How can I get my friend back?
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Just try to talk to Sarah about the situation. I hope your relationship gets better!!!
This happened to me a few years ago. It was horrible, and eventually my friend (my version fo your sarah) started BITCHING about me and picking on me.
We are no longer friends anymore and I eventually moved schools and made new friends.
I'm sorry about whats happening to you and I really wish I could help.
I'm really bad with this kind of stuff.
Oh, I just read your comment, I'm glad things worked out for you!
At least your whole school doesn't call you a Paramore groupie or (yes I am a girl) A Hayley Williams fangirl. :|
I'd just like to say a big 'THANK YOU!' to everyone that commented it's really touching to know that people are willing help me because I didn't think I'd get as many comments as i did.
Me and Sarah did talk about it because i had to tell her and she said that Mollie was only using her so that she would look cool in front of Tim, and I asked her about how she saw me as a person and not (as everyone in school knows me 'The Paramore Girl') and she said that she'd always be there for me and she didn't care who i was or what i liked so now she stopped walking with Mollie but she still goes out with Tim but i guess if he's happy then I should be too.
dont worry try to tell her how u feel and if that dont work then try hanging out with other people !!!! dont push urself into joining a difrent league but just try to make nu frends i no it seems crazy at irst but just hav a go !!
@Ruffles
Feel free to post about it :) Talking 'bout it always helps.
as in mine is worse. r u jealous cause shes not hanging out with you a lot, and is with "mollie"?
wow. that doesnt even compare to my friends drama.
Okay girl, friends are friends- and friends are people you should be able to talk to. Talk to her about this, but don't be accusing or stuff, people don't like that. If she denies you and won't help, you need to understand that some people are just weak. This happened to me before, and it was really hard. But friendships are complicated- and if she really is your friend, she'll stick up for you-despite the glare of the limelight. If it doesn't work out, find a new friend, there are billions of people out there! :) Good luck!
Friends are allowed to have other friends but it seems like this is really bothering you.
You're known Sarah for a long time right? You should feel comfortable talking to her about this.
When you're alone with her without Mollie, Tim or anybody around, tell her how you feel. Be alone with her, dont have anyone there that could distract you.
If she's a real friend, she'll understand. She'll make sure to spend time with you and apoligize for what she's done. She probabaly wont break off her friendship with Mollie but I think that when you confront her, she wont do that again.
If nothing gets any better, she isnt a good friend and you deserve better so just forget about her. Then you need to move on and make a new friend that really cares about you.
well frist of all i wanna you to know i'm spanish so my english isn't really good XD
like 2 yers before it happens to me too so what i did was that i talked to her about that, i told her(Bea) she was starting to ignore me and i was feeling bad bacause she was my best friend and i loved her and i didn't wanna loose her.we were talking about one hour about that and finally we were friends again. i hope it will be helpful
good luck with it
Get them both on Harry Hill's TV burp and have them fight to the death ^-^
Or just try talking to her :/ either's good
"Run to the hills! Run for your lives!"
maybe it can hurt you, but maybe "Sarah" is not such friend as you thought. well, i think that friends don't do a things like that. at first i would talk to her and tell her about my feelings and what i think about her "new best friend". then, if she wouldn't care, i would give her up and try to find some new friends. really. don't try to keep this friendship if she wouldn't be interested.
i had a few toxic friends (people who just didn't deserve my attention, my time and my heart. for them i wasn't someone important) and i know that it's not easy to let go. but you have to think what's best for you!!!!!!!! you have to understand that friend should be a cause of your laugh, not a cause of your cry. think about it!
If she is ur best friend she'll pick u. Cuz that's what a best friend's are people who prefers each other over all of there other friends.
I don't really understand either, but i think @McQueen is right.
I don't get what was so bad.
Maybe she isn't as much of a friend as you thought. Just let it all pan out. It will work out soon enough, if not then make a new friend with someone who won't abandon you.
Just for now let her be and let her choose if she really wants to be your friend or not. And you should start looking for new friends just in case. Belive me this happened to me twice and now they don't even talk to me, but now I got over it. Just do what I told you and what McQueen told you ok you'll be fine. Your and your friend just might go separate ways but eventually you guys just might be friends again, or that popular girl might turn out to be a b**** and use her. So yeah hang in there kido!! :)
Sounds like she just made a new friend. Just let them hang out eventually she'll hang wichu or not. Just try to be friends but don't force her to choose, if you do she will never choose you or she'll be angry at you either way you lose.