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Judgemental people or whateverrrr you wanna call it

  • Judgemental people or whateverrrr you wanna call it
    Alex-wa says(Oct 3, 2009)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

    I hate how people judge other by appearences, and try to group them. i mean i know high schools all finding who you are and fitting in or crap but like people at school try to classify me as a "prep" (which i sure as heck am not) or whatever and i hate that because (most) people have so much to their personalities that you cant classify them in groups, although people often do. im not saying ive never done this, but its still wrong.

    wanna share? lol

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Alex-wa's picture
on October 3, 2009 - 2:07am

I hate how people judge other by appearences, and try to group them. i mean i know high schools all finding who you are and fitting in or crap but like people at school try to classify me as a "prep" (which i sure as heck am not) or whatever and i hate that because (most) people have so much to their personalities that you cant classify them in groups, although people often do. im not saying ive never done this, but its still wrong.

wanna share? lol

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Young Loaded's picture

i said try instead of trying**

jess XD

Young Loaded's picture

"im not saying ive never done this, but its still wrong."

Judging people or stereotyping is in the human nature...its bound to happen and everyone does it...the brain is only try to classify the person (the one being judged) into a group to deduce more info about them...its almost automatic...

jess XD

unnamed.'s picture

well, I've never been stereotyped as far as I know for I have... a really weird personality. Have different sets of friends, hang out with random people often.
Well, everyone hates being judged. but look at it this way, the ones who judge you are the ones who don't know you. :)

TheFirstMarTe's picture

Well, I don't hate them..., just... I don't support them. Also I don't back up hating them... and i get kind of upset about those who try to call attention by acting brutally different... I'm old school btw, and I just dislike people I call 'unjustified rebels'. Anyway... hating is a bad thing.

AllWeKnowIsAnisa's picture

I agree with everything you have said above! XD

Alex-wa's picture

ha ik. my friends told me so many stories im kinda mad at myself lol but i cant change it now :(

Alicia In Wonderland's picture

you're missing out on alot, its so much fun we do stuff that people wouldn't do in their right minds.

Alex-wa's picture

@Alicia A.
hahaha yeah.. i was one but then stopped (idk y im regretting it now)

Alicia In Wonderland's picture

for a bandnerd being normal is weird. hahaha XD

hil's picture

@pinoyboy- I'm a loner too. I learned a few years ago that I'd rather be a loner with a few good friends than have a lot of friends that are willing to screw you over! I mean my group of friends let all the air outta my tires- learned my lesson real fast!

and I get classified different things everyday because I wear many different styles of clothing. Stereotypes are just a way to group people so that other people can feel more comfortable

brickbyboringbrick_24's picture

I agree with you, pinoyboy. I would never want tons of friends for the sake of having tons of friends. I have one best girl friend, and one best guy friend, and they are all I need.

Angie_48's picture

Ya im really really shy and quiet too =(

Pinoyboy2829's picture

yea im pretty quiet too, and i dont have many friends. But for me quality is better then quantity. I stick with a few friends who i know are good friends. Then people call me a loner cuz of that....

brickbyboringbrick_24's picture

Everyone says I'm the strange, quiet one. Haha. Teenage life sucks. Oh well.

Alex-wa's picture

its fine. im kinda the same way. and unfortunatley theres not much we can do ppl will be ppl

Angie_48's picture

i just had to do a 5min speech about stereotypes, its really depressing when u get stereotyped/judged. Idk y but i just dont seem to get along with girls cuz they all wanna wear xtreme short shorts and talk about guys and fashion and just be totally fake and stuck up big time (im not saying all girls are like this but there are alot) and im more layed back and wanna speak about video games and stuff like that, there need to be more girls like me instead all of the fake barbies. So now i just sit with all guys and no girls and i hardly talk to any girls (i think i might have like 4 girl-friends but they dont go to my school) So i usually get looked at and judged, im starting to get fed up with ppl that judge others by what they do and what they look like. (srry if i was a bit of topic)

Alex-wa's picture

haha rant away.
thats the whole purpose of these

CallMeSabrina's picture

ya I know what ya mean
*random story*
I went to uhh Circuit City one day last year
and I was looking for Scream by Tokio Hotel
and I asked a guy that worked there.
"Hey do you guys have Tokio Hotel...?"
he's all "Sure what genre is is it....rap, hip hop r&b...?"
Im like uhhh(wtf?!?) "Alt rock...I guess"
and he kinda looks at me in disbelief
and after all that he doesnt even tell me if they have it I have to go look for the dude....ugh jerk
-_-
kay im done ranting
:)

Pixie_18's picture

Yeah...everyone thinks I'm emo because one day I happened to wear all black and I don't really care about makeup or making my hair all fancy. Even some of my friends call me a nerd 'cause I care about my grades and I actually try to do well...stereotypes aren't cool...but we should all feel good that we're mature enough to think outside the tiny box people who stereotype create.

turn it off.'s picture

ugh, i agree with u so much!! :(

Alex-wa's picture

same. i read a book for english in one night (it was tiny) and now ima "fiend". wtf...

Pinoyboy2829's picture

totally agreed. Stereotypes are dumb. Apparently i am a nerd because i care about my grades? i mean seriously....

ohsnapitsnicole's picture

stereotypes sucks .no one ever believes im in honors just because the way i dress. so then everyone thinks im a liar.

Alex-wa's picture

ehh theres nothing wrong with bandnerds lol my bestest frriend is a bandnerd lol

Alicia In Wonderland's picture

I really don't gaf what people label me as but alot people call me normal. :) haha or a bandnerd and that's pretty much it.

XxMikixX's picture

Well I am laughed at a lot of times for doing musical theatre because, first off the music isn't "Hip" or "current" or "radio material". Secondly, Theatre people are generally thought of as "weird" and "strange". I write pop and I can sing pop easily. I can sing nearly everything from Musical Theatre to Opera to Pop to Rap (sorta not really but you know. btw sorry if I sound like I am bragging, I usually don't do that, but i seem to do it when i am angry or feel left out...srry). I don't like it how some people will just label you before knowing you. Stereotypes do exist, but not in everyone.

*Random Fact* I used to have the same fone as u. Tht is an enV2 write? They don't even make them anymore cuz they malfuntioon a ton. I had two. The first one broke and the second one's screen stoped working 4 days after I got it. I have the enV touch now

Alex-wa's picture

she was saying wat other people label her as!
and if she did contradict herself, why the hell do u care?

paperburrito's picture

BUT SHE JUST CONTRADICTED HERSELF.

how can people not judge her?
she's the one who started labeling herself for the first place

Alex-wa's picture

ok well shes just saying that people judge her because of what she wears.

OMGBLONDHAYHAY's picture

they dont understand how great hayley is and how amazing her style is!!

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