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Was Hayley right to react this way?

  • Was Hayley right to react this way?
    abcdiane says(Sep 17, 2010)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

    Some of you may have heard about Paramore's recent show in Phoenix, where one of the dudes they brought up on stage from the crowd kissed Hayley on the cheek (Or that's what it looks like) without her permission.

     

    Here's a video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2bhqOIZkLk

    So, obviously Hayley was pretty ticked off about this guy. Do y'all think she was right to think of him being rude? Or do you think she over-reacted and should've just ignored it?

     

    Personally I think she was right. The guy might've actually been trying to kiss her on the lips. I wouldn't like it much if a stranger just kissed me on the cheek. Especially if I have a boyfriend. Then that would make everyone else think that it would be okay to just try and kiss her whenever she has a boyfriend.

     

    What's your opinion?

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abcdiane's picture
on September 17, 2010 - 7:57pm

Some of you may have heard about Paramore's recent show in Phoenix, where one of the dudes they brought up on stage from the crowd kissed Hayley on the cheek (Or that's what it looks like) without her permission.

 

Here's a video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2bhqOIZkLk

So, obviously Hayley was pretty ticked off about this guy. Do y'all think she was right to think of him being rude? Or do you think she over-reacted and should've just ignored it?

 

Personally I think she was right. The guy might've actually been trying to kiss her on the lips. I wouldn't like it much if a stranger just kissed me on the cheek. Especially if I have a boyfriend. Then that would make everyone else think that it would be okay to just try and kiss her whenever she has a boyfriend.

 

What's your opinion?

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Rachel Fabuleux's picture

WEll, looking at some closer up videos you can see that while Hayley was shocked at first but she was smiling with the guy later.

I on the other hand might have cried :/

Spock At The Disco's picture

YEAH!!
Dude, I would have punched him!!

EvWsox's picture

frankly id be pissed too. i mean who does that???

MTRJ99's picture

SHE IS SO MEAN BUT THAT GUY HAS GUTS I ENVY HIM

Angie_48's picture

Lmfao wow I cant believe you guys are saying it was rude and harsh!!! I believe she had every single bit of right!!! to act the way she did... I rekon she under reacted =/... You guys are saying it was rude and harsh blah blah etc etc... But how would you react if some guy just came and kissed you on the cheek it is completely gross and disgusting!! I would have been like " Mate get the fuck of the stage right now!" ... Go Hayley! you own!

NotWarNotRapture's picture

Jeez are you guys STILL talking about this? I go away for two week! Seriously!

sockpuppy's picture

O.o what guy in the right mind would do that?? lol that's kinda creepy

kiourtis's picture

if the guy didnt carry on, i thought it would have been border line. but he kept going on about it. if i was hayleyi would honestly have given him a round house kick to the side of the head. and she looks fiery, wouldnt be surprised if she pulled it off!

carlapee's picture

i think she was right, like she was probably shocked/freaked out.. i mean like how would you react if a complete stranger comes up to you and kisses you?
-just my thoughts-

red_rose's picture

Anyone who thought she was wrong to react that was is wrong. Whatever way she acted would be right because situations like that when you're as famous as her can completly change how people see you, so its not if it was the right thing to do or not its how she wants people to view her aswel. Plus, would you want a complete stranger to just come up and kiss you? fan or no fan thats just a bit wierd.

xxTIGGERxx's picture

i think she was right. it was rude of that guy to just come up and kiss her like that. i'd do the same thing. and its not like she cussed him out or anything (and she probably wouldnt do that cause there could be small kids in the audience). she didnt make a huge deal about it. she just told him that he was disrespectful to do that and then she went on with the show.

Lxtllz's picture

I think she came off as a little harsh but i dont really care that "other cultures" think thats okay... its weird here in america, especially for country people lol. I think she was freaked out but also took it as a lack of respect. plus she still wanted to keep a pure image and she doesnt want it to happen again. as for her speach on kissing girls... I think she was panicking a bit and channeling the cheese from the show and got a little cheesy... i do agree that you should at least know the girl too...

That kiss really threw her off lol.

jasonlovestwinkies's picture

He should have got arrested!
lol jk but it was ok to be rude.

Brooke-Kirra's picture

plus pretty sure he was just lucky to be on the frigin stage!!!!!

Brooke-Kirra's picture

She did a good job of trying to just joke about it you could tell she was frustrated when he answered her back though nah she did a hell good job i would have flipped it and like shoved him off into the mosh lol

Unforgettable's picture

LOLL I saw that XD It was really funny. I don't think Hayley was being really rude, I perceived it as her being really grossed out but not too pissed.

Tommy_12's picture

Oh my god that was hilarious. Lucky beggar, if only that was me on the stage but I loved her reaction. It was perfect, it was way below freaking out and screaming at him, but way above letting it pass. So it ended up being a sort of comedy thing rather than a rape attempt.

Hayley 2.0's picture

Hayley can do whatever she wants

yes, that guy is a douche bag

beaver19920's picture

ahahaha... what a douche. Fair enough to do that type of things with friends, but not with someone in her position for what she was doing at that time. Fair enough they were hugging and getting some pictures, but it really is just an invasion of space for her, and having some douche kiss her

CarliesArt's picture

I think she had the right to react that way, but I dont think she had to make him seem so dumb for doing it. She could have gone about it another way, but overall I think she was right.

Tayla_4's picture

I think she did the right thing, she may have meant it in a joking way but who knows. But overall she did the right thing :)

Zoe Melisko's picture

I think she did the right thing, I also think she was just kind of joking around and teasing him about it. no harm no fowl but i would have been embarrassed both ways. pulse most the people on youtube are jerks!

Half Psychotic's picture

I think she was right to react that way. She could've been a little nicer about it than she was though. That guy must have felt really embarassed after that. But you can't blame her for reacting that way. You don't just walk up to people and kiss them. Even if it is on the cheek.

giliamarable's picture

I DON'T agree actually...a peck on the cheek (in most coltures) isn't such a big deal...even if you have a boy/girlfriend...come on he's just a fan who wants to show how much he admires her by showin' some looove...he wasn't aiming for the lips..if someone is aiming for the lips he fu*@ing hits the lips....i was in a concert a few months back (not of paramore) and a fan just walked up on stage because she knew the singer and give him a kiss on the cheek and walked off casually...i think maybe because she's a very modest girl it bothered her but it's no reason to humiliate him infront of all those fans..just sayin'

TaarPLOF's picture

she was right, wouldn't appreciate it either.
You come there for a concert.
not to kiss hayley!

Goshh!! =.="
If it would happen to me I would freak out I think.
Like; "hello! who the *@#&@#( do you think you are?!"

_AdDyY_'s picture

damm right she was right about acting that way!!! not only did she stick of for herself (and her personal space) but she also stuck up for girl power!!!!
corney? yes. but still totally true!!

istilltry's picture

i think she was right. this random guy just came up and kissed her on the cheek, and i dont think anyone would like it if a complete stranger just came up and did that to you.

Mooey's picture

I think that Hayley's reaction was perfectly justified. I mean, who wouldn't hate a random person coming up and kissing them?!

Not Jim Anyways's picture

Anybody notice zac in the background with the big mask on ?? lol

Ripping Wings_2's picture

She didn't seem ticked off, just grossed out. It was barely a reaction.

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