You see I had this bestfriend and her name is Andrea, her and I were bestfriends since 6th grade (currently going to 11th) A couple of days ago she completely stopped talking to me because of the guy I like. She was telling me how he was a huge flirt and stuff and she would tell me "I saw him holding hands with Alex" and stuff like that and before she told me he had already explained to me what had actually happened. His friends along with mine told me he has changed soooo much since he started liking me, now my bestfriend would refuse to believe that. I would do what she would suggest me to do which was to talk to him about the things he was doing, and I DID! I told her I talked to him about it and it all worked out. After I told her that she called me stupid and retarded and didn't want to talk to me. All my friends which are her friends too say she is being stupid about this and that she is trying her best to mess up the relationship between me and the guy. She talked be about me to him and said how I was pathetic and stuff, I cried because I mean she was my bestfriend since 6th. Now he tells me that i should cry over her after what she said and how she treated me, is he right? Let me know what you think of this! PLEASEE! :)
Maybe your friend doesn't want to see you with a guy cause she feels you won't pay attention to her if you start going out with this boy and maybe she thinks it will ruin your friendship. If that is the case then she has already ruined it herself. I suggest attempting to talk to your friend and not holding back any secrets from her or the boy you like. That's my opinion.
you have to talk her
if her get worse , she 's going to thing that ure a interested in her friendship :) and probably then she will talk to u
but i dnt thing that her is gnna get worse! ure caring bout her
@daisy, i just gotta add. fannying around = one of the best phrases ever.
That's a chance you're gonna have to take. There's no point in fannying around with it. She probably wants you to talk to her about, because she's probably feeling awful too, even if it doesn't seem that way. You just need to ask her what reason she has for acting like that and try your best to make sure she's knows that you're not going to freak out at her, no matter what she says. The best thing to do is just be honest with her, so she knows what effect this is having on you. If it doesn't work out the way you hoped, then at least you know you tried and the ball is in her court, so if she wants to make things better, it's up to her.
I want to talk to her but i'm not sure what to say... I love her like a sister but I have never seen her act this way :(( What if but trying to talk to her i get her worse? :(((((
She isn't Pathetic, she's jealous, she's obviously scared of losing you, or she likes him. You should take her advice - talk to her about it.
that s why im saying that u have to talk to her, but wait a time , she need to calm down and realize that she's wrong acting like that
it's not the time you've been together but the good relationship you had - you won't last long if you didn't have. maybe you should wait for her to talk to you. but if she wouldn't talk to you and you think it has been too long, maybe you should do the first move. coz sometimes some friends think like "see?? she didn't go after me! she just let me and our friendship slip away" talk things out. if she really thinks you are her bestfriend, she'll listen to you and do her very best to understand your side. :))
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i think that u have to wait a few days and then talk to her, to clear things up :)
if she was ur friend for those time she will talk u again
dont cry :)
The thing is that she already has a bf which she broke up with him for being a jerk! And she went back with him, and when she was crying that she missed him even after he treated her bad i was there for her like at 5 in the morning telling her how much i loved her and that she shouldn't cry over that jerk when no one was there! Him and my friends have told me that she is probably jealous of how Javier (the guy that likes mee xD) treats me, and i thought about that, but it just surprised me that she could of done this, she isn't like this at all!
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So... I think she's Jealous.
She's jealous. To be honest, I think it may work out between you guys. Stuff like this has happened with me and my friends, but I think I was the one being a jerk....
If she's like how I was, she probably feels bad about all this. She just wants somebody to like her like this guy likes you.
Just give this situation time. I think she'll realize that you guys need each other and she'll come back.
Honestly? I think she's just jealous. Maybe because she likes him too. Or, maybe because she's scared you're gonna start spending more time with him than her.
But she shouldn't call you pathetic, that's not right.
Yeah, I think she's just jealous.
I also agree with the people that are saying she might be jealous... I hate it when that happens between friends.
Listen to your guy. He's right.
You've know her for awhile but she's being a total bitch.
As much as this is hurting you, seperate yourself.
She's not being a good friend though you've know her for awhile, it doesnt mean that she's right.
She's not a good friend it she doesnt support you for what you like. She's aloud to guide and help you out bit if you're crying about her and she's treating you like this, forget about her.
Time to find a new friend or just hang with you're guy some more.
so he said that you shouldn't cry over her after that??? well I kinda agree with him, I mean, friends can suck sometimes, I've lost friends this year, like my friend Jeana called me a slut and said that she hated me, but after awhile she apologized and we're friends again. I don't think you should cry over it, and maybe in a few day or weeks or something, she might come to her senses and apologize and it might work out. and another experience I had was with my friend Sierra, she was lieing to me for like 3 months and I found out about it and then she apologized, we had to build up our friendship again, but now we're better friends than we ever were in the first place.
I guess if you're looking at it from her Point of View, she's only trying to look out for you but maybe she's jealous that you're getting the popular, good-looking guy. I was like that with one of my friends, she went out with someone who threatened to kill her, but then she broke up with him. Now this year they are back together and she lost her virginity to him? I told her it was stupid and that things will just end up like the last time but we still talk, just not specifically about him.
Ask your friend if she's willing to just forget everything and accept that you know what you're doing and if what she is saying is right then she can gloat all she wants.
She sounds a lil jealous if she was really a friend she wouldn't act like that. Unless she like him.
Hm.
From what I gather, maybe your best friend's actually interested in this guy and that she might be jealous?
I'm not expert on such things, but there's my guess. :l