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What would you do if your close friend is DYING?

  • What would you do if your close friend is DYING?
    Lyresa says(Apr 6, 2010)
    Edited on March 30, 2012

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on April 6, 2010 - 2:05am

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angelus_3's picture

pay him a fiver
we had a bet on 2 c who dies first lol

unnamed.'s picture

depends on your definition of dying.
If by dying, she has a cancer and has a few days to live, I'm so gonna spend every second of those days with her. Tell her how much I love her and tell her I'm sorry for all the wrong things I've done.
If by dying, you mean she committed suicide and is running our of blood, I'm gonna rush her to the nearest hospital or clinic or anywhere she could get medical attention and pray a lot.

tasiasaystwss's picture

... it's a good question. but... i guess... i don't kno.w

Leeea♥'s picture

but i couldn't do anything she commited suicide...noone knows why

Leeea♥'s picture

it happened to me....so

fanni's picture

very stupid question... -_-

violet cullen's picture

Take them to the hospital even though they may not be able to do anything. Remind both of us of the great times we had together, tell her how great she is. Gather her favorite things and hold them close, keeping parts of her with me everyday.

In.The.Business.Of.Anna's picture

i would spend every second with her, if she couldnt move, i'd carry her everywhere she wanted to go, i would tell her how much i love her and we would reminis on fond memories, we would both keep a journal of our time together, then when she dies i will have a hole in my heart, i'll go to her house and constantly read all the notes she kept that we would pass to each other in school and the book of snow white and the sevin dwarves she re-wrote (she calls it "hooker and the seven pimps").i would be such a loner, she is the only friend i really have (i do have other friends but no one could replace her), so yea, then i would probably die too....

C'mon Chickens's picture

Urm, cry?

Nice discussion topic, btw. Real nice..

Chicken calls me Jenn-Jenn's picture

Try not to make a big deal about it. I know its a big huge thing but like let them know your there but try not to freak them and not make a big scenario. Continue on with them and don't waste one second because every second is precious now. Keep on going living average with them and treating them as nothing is wrong. When the time comes it will make you feel better that you spent time with them rather than just sit and cry and had all that wasted time ruined by tears.

murbot's picture

Let them know how much I love them and appreciate them, talk to them once a day and ask how they're doing. Spend time with them if I can and make them feel as comfortable as possible... Remind them every day how much they are loved.
Once they pass, I'll take my time to mourn and I'll be ready to move on.
Can't waste time crying... They would be upset to see you all torn apart.

Paramore_Freak_12's picture

Cry and cry. But, I'd spend as much time with her as I could. Once she was gone I'd cry and cry and cry. I hope that never happens though!!

Sam Town's picture

Same as @ToxicPink

ToxicPink's picture

i would stay near her and help her get through it, doing my best to mkae her feel comfortable... and once she's gone, i would cry for a million years.

fragilebrokenthings's picture

cry until i die too (:

Big City Dreams's picture

cry to death O_O